Quote of the day.
Anita Roddick, Founder of The Body Shop:
‘If you think you’re too small to have an impact, try going to bed with a mosquito.’
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Would you believe that’s a Sugababes lyric?!
When a ‘lad’ decides to slur a vulgar comment at Royal Holloway, University of London’s Feminist Society, he couldn’t have anticipated the launch of one of the biggest social media campaigns of the year.
Once the ladies of the society found themselves the direct target of an insult, they took the bull by the horns and decided to reclaim the term ‘ugly‘.
Cue, a gazillion amount of selfies flooding social media sites with the hashtag, ‘UglyGirlsClub‘.
Sick of females being constantly judged purely on their image, these feminists knew better than to be hurt by the comment.
“We sort of started laughing about it,” Natasha Barrett, Royal Holloway’s Feminist Society President, recalls. “And then we started sending each other very tongue in cheek selfies with the hashtag.”
Hence the birth of the ‘Ugly Girls Club’ campaign. Encouraging and empowering people to not just think of their worth in physical terms. I, for one, feel strongly that our value isn’t determined by our appearance.
People across the world (male and female alike) have picked up on the hashtag and the campaign is now almost 1,000 people strong.
These thousands of selfies range from scrunched up faces, make-up adorned faces, to the rolling of eyes – all in the name of sticking two virtual fingers up to their detractor.
Selfies have been rolling in from as far as Australia!
Namecalling is nasty. But RHUL’s Fem Soc have truly turned the tables, and won this fight.
This is one club I definitely don’t mind being part of.
It is jealousy in its harshest form – jealousy of success.
These feelings are real and unfortunately seem to exist in society.
Of the few networking events and career advice talks I’ve attended, I’ve consistently encountered these types of young women.
These girls always seem judgemental and never are genuinely pleased when they learn the career path I want to lead is the same as theirs.
In contrast, when speaking to a guy who’s career ambition mirrors mine – there is no jealousy or judgement there at all.
But why does this jealousy amongst females exist?
I have always wondered why there is a need to compete, or get to your dream quicker or faster than another woman. Why can’t you both succeed?
Young women, in particular, need to stop being jealous of another’s success. There is no use in obsessing over someone else’s accomplishments or failures.
Where did this competition begin and why do girls feel the need to compare themselves with others? Surely, we should be motivating our fellow females to succeed – what ever happened to ‘Girl Power’ after all!
Googling ‘female empowerment’ pulls up 18,600,000 results online of plenty of news articles featuring senior women in the limelight who are promoting the term.
Simply by diverting all the negative energy into something positive, can ultimately help you lead a better life and help you in your own successes.
Social networking means it’s easy to constantly compare yourself to your peers.
While healthy competition can be a good thing, blatant jealousy is not.
I’ve learnt that if you want to be successful in life, being your own competition is far better than fixating on someone else’s triumphs.
So what if your classmate got 90% in a test, and you only got 60%?
So what if she’s been promoted, and you are only an intern?
The world is sometimes unfair – deal with it. Some people have better opportunities and make the most of thier luck.
You can do nothing of it, except create your own successes.
Fantasizing about your jealousy will take you nowhere – but you know this already, and you certainly don’t need me to lecture you on that!
I firmly champion the ideal that women need to encourage fellow females to rise to the top in their career paths, rather than be jealous of them, or see them as competition.
All I’m saying is, be self-motivated, and celebrate your achievements.
Be passionate about your life and respect your own ambition.
Great article on this topic: ‘How to Stop being Jealous of Someone Else’s Success?’